The Wendmere

The Wendmere

The Wendmere

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Why we stopped mending things

Our grandparents darned socks because they had to. We don’t, and something slipped away with the habit that had nothing to do with money.

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ending used to be a daily chore, like washing up. Every house had a darning mushroom, a tin of buttons and someone who knew how to use them.

We gave up mending when mending stopped making sense on paper. A new pair of socks costs less than an hour of your time. The sums are right; they are just measuring the wrong thing.

What repair teaches

To mend something you have to understand how it was made. A darn copies the weave; a patched jacket shows you where the cloth takes the strain. Repair is a quiet education in the objects around you.

Starting small

You don’t need to rebuild a chair. Sew a button back on this week. Darn one sock. Notice how different it feels to wear a thing you have saved.

It will not change the economy. It might change what you buy next.

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Oona Pike

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Oona writes the Thursday essay about repair, attention and owning fewer, better things. She is working on a book about the history of mending.

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